Instead, I’m left exposed in the tub with a cold draft. They usually don’t even think twice about it. I say all this to say that no matter how hard I have tried to cover up or shield them from my own nakedness, they have caught a glimpse here and there. My seven-year-old has now figured out how to take a penny and turn the bathroom lock to make her way in.
They bang on the door until I get out of the tub and unlock it so they can ask me something that could have waited. By three years old, I actually started locking the bathroom door. Therefore, since society (and my husband) deemed it inappropriate, I made sure to stop. For me, two was the age where it felt as if they could start remembering these things. As the kids become more aware of things and get curious about body parts, it makes things uncomfortable. Not because I wanted them to infiltrate the only time that I had alone, but because it just seemed like the only way I could preserve time back then. But hasn’t this woman learned that social media is the devil?Īdmittedly, I have taken a bath with all of my kids at some point up until they were about two. The exposed boob that was covered was probably a bit much. Truthfully, I highly doubt there was anything inappropriate going on, and it really did just look like she was taking a bath with her child. We know the type of backlash something like this could get so this was a bad decision by tubmom or the anonymous photographer (maybe dad?). Like many others, I saw more harm done by posting the photo. To each his own.Īs long as there is no harm done to the child, there shouldn’t be any real issue.
Seriously though, we can’t continue to think we can tell other parents how to raise their kids, or decide the decency line for everyone else. So not only were they inappropriate to everyone, there was a chance they were both not even fully washed.
Not to mention, from the looks of the photos, they both looked cramped and there wasn’t enough room for them to properly bathe. Now, unfortunately for “tubmom,” in order for this behavior to have been acceptable by internet mafia standards, said boy should have been no older than two for her not to be condemned for her actions. He looked to be at least four or five, but it’s hard to say what his exact age is. So the first question a lot of people probably asked was the age of the boy.
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